Yes! We Drive Each Other Nuts! Grieving family members, including children, tend to drive each other nuts because we each grieve differently and on our own personal healing time table. Normal grief pain produces normal grief responses—and the grief responses that you experience may or may not be the same as other family members. Normal […]
05 Dec Don’t Boss Me Around!
Experiencing An Emotional Crash After Thanksgiving Day? It’s the day after Thanksgiving. Are you experiencing an emotional crash? Just asking. Why? Because, not every one does, but many of us do. You need to know that this too is normal for grieving and healing. For instance, did you wake up feeling emotionally and physically exhausted […]
Anniversary Of The Death: Emotional Kicker This day was never a part of your life until the death of your loved one. Now that it is, you may be wondering, Now What? For starters, it’s helpful to understand what’s normal for the anniversary of the death. Why? So that you can navigate your healing journey […]
Now What? Death Day! Also Known As The Anniversary Of The Death… I referred to this day as “Death Day” the first few years after my husband Donald died. Every year I take inventory—and every year I can’t believe that another year has gone by—and every year the days leading up to this day […]
Turkey, Warm Weather & The State Police. What a welcome change! Instead of the normal cold and rainy and sometimes snowy Michigan weather that we tend to experience on Thanksgiving Day—the weather on this particular Thanksgiving Day (1998) was sunny and warm and beautiful. I know that I am not the only holiday host, […]
1. You don’t need to accept every invitation. 2. It’s okay not to decorate as much or not to decorate at all. Unless you have children who expect and need things not to change much. 3. You don’t have to do everything the same. This is difficult to do when everything has changed. 4. […]
What is a grief burst? A grief burst is when intense, painful, grief emotions unexpectedly (and that seemingly come out of nowhere) surge though the mind and body and emotionally, and sometimes physically, derail you for a brief period of time. Typically producing unstoppable tears—but not always. And possibly triggering a burst of grief related […]